Our Mission
Foster the independence and dignity of older adults by reducing food insecurity and isolation with daily nutritious meals, friendly visits, and connection to support services.


packs of five meals provided to most food-insecure clients

Eloise A. used to cook and deliver meals to homebound seniors in the 1970s. Today, she receives meals from SOSMOW that have saved her life.
“I thought I was eating just fine, but then I ended up in the ER from malnourishment. My doctor says, ‘Eloise, I’m putting you on Meals on Wheels. It’s not a request. It’s a command.’ So I said OK.”
This was in 2021, about 50 years after Eloise used to cook and deliver meals to homebound seniors herself. As a Catholic nun, she started senior community and medical centers, ran daycare and childcare centers for parents who couldn’t afford them, and provided hands-on support to anyone who needed it.
That’s how she met her husband. Yes, while a nun and in midlife, she was working with an ordained Catholic Priest from Ireland, Sean, and they fell in love while in the tiny town of Douglas, Wyoming (“Home of the Jackalope”). To be truthful, Eloise said, she hadn’t much wanted to be a nun anyway; she’d dreamed of acting. But as a teenager, she had promised God to join a convent if he saved her mother from dying. Her mother lived, and Eloise kept her word!
Sean couldn’t marry, though, and Eloise decided it wasn’t right to stay in the convent. So she left. They both eventually moved to California, Sean left the church, and they married in 1985.
With degrees in sociology and clinical psychology, Eloise worked at a hospital while Sean directed the men’s section of a nonprofit.
“Sean was the love of my life. We weren’t married long enough,” Eloise said. He passed away in 2008. “I have coffee with his 8X10 photo every morning. But looking back, I wouldn’t change a thing about my life because of all the people I’ve helped, especially in poor areas.”
Now, thanks to the generosity of SOSMOW supporters, 88-year-old Eloise is getting the help she needs to live independently in her Oakland home.
“We didn’t get retirement (income) from working for the church, so MOW has turned out to be a blessing in more ways than one,” she said. “I’m very grateful.”
No age group in Alameda County has grown more in the past 15 years than age 65 and older, and experts predict this trend will continue. Determined to be prepared, SOSMOW created a three- to five-year strategic plan that Executive Director Charlie Deterline said is a testament to the energy and commitment of current staff, volunteers and supporters.
“We’ve gotten better and better at what we do since the pandemic. We’ve seen the benefits of change, and our mindset is one of always looking for a better way to do something,” he said.
“We’ve learned what we’re capable of and applied the lessons to our strategic plan, investing in innovation and technology, our people and opportunities for them, and equipment to be more cost effective,” Deterline said. “SOSMOW is the best at serving vulnerable seniors, and the strategic plan ensures we will continue to be.”